The power to’s life changing




Recently I was at a quarterly meeting in San Diego to connect with my business coach Joe Stumpf at “By Referral Only”  Real Estate Marketing University.

Joe asked: “Imagine what life could look like—if you removed/delegated even 1 or 2 of your current irritations & tolerations”. “Imagine what life could look like if you focused more on the “amazing” & ”your happy place”. “If you put the work into these changes—the pay off will be for a life time”. So lets “Imagine together…”

Imagine a couple of your work irritations and tolerations gone. What are the things that could be removed or delegated? One of our clients recently imagined not having to cut the lawn, shovel the snow covered driveway, and clean up after a winter storm...ever again. So they bought a townhouse! (one of my tolerations is the accounting end of our business. Fortunate for me, Marlene enjoys numbers and she took that over—and with that time I am able to work on bettering our team’s plans, systems and campaigns—” “In my happy place”)


Health, fitness & energy - Imagine 1 or 2 of your irritations / tolerations gone. (For me (Larry) - my “Happy place” is following a morning and afternoon daily ritual. By not guarding daily rituals—my toleration is low energy) For a friend of ours—their “happy place” is to imagine a regular work-out routine with a work-out partner or trainer.


Imagine family & relationships - What to do some people tolerate in relationships? Manipulation. Being driven by guilt, other’s 

expectations or always saying “yes” - but for the wrong reasons. (Marlene and I guard our hearts - when it comes to manipulation - we want our home to be our kids’, grandkids’ & friends favourite place to come to - This is our “happy 




Joe asked us to “imagine our finances, our wisdom, growth & mental capacity and our spiritual life”. What would happen if we removed or delegated just 1 or 2 of our irritations and tolerations and spent more time in the “amazing” & “our happy place”




“Put the work into these changes - and the pay off will be for a life time…”




Encouraged or Discouraged? 



Have you ever noticed that when you focus on what is not working in your life, that you feel discouraged? 


When things don’t quite work out the way that I had expected them to or hoped that they would, my negative self talk can easily wreck my peace of mind. I have also found that when I focus on what is working in my life I get this feeling of encouragement. 


As an example:: I (Larry) was told by my doctor this past Spring that I was pre-diabetic. “ARE YOU KIDDING? I’m 6 ‘1” and 155 could that be? I thought diabetes was a weight thing for larger or inactive people?!” 


“No, Larry,” my doctor went on to say, “you have been blessed with it geneti- cally. It’s in your DNA. Your Dad has it.”  So ok, here we go. No pasta, no potatoes, no bread and certainly no dessert.  Even minimal fruit. My inner self talk was screaming, “POOR ME!” and this continued at every dinner over the course of the next week or so. (You need  to know that I LOVE  bread, potatoes and spaghetti.) This was not good news to me...AT ALL. 


I have a few people in my life that encouraged me to go for it and make the change. I have made the decision to eat clean and exercise more and over  the past 6 months I can’t deny that I feel healthier and I’ve even gained some muscle and have lost an inch around my waist. Feeling fit and trim! 


Here is the nugget. We all hit bumps on the road, don’t we? We can have blue days (or really bad hair days), but encouragement can help bring us out of these valleys and dips. We just don’t have to live there. 


So...who are your ‘go to’ people who continuously speak encouragement into your life? Be an encourager and you will be encouraged right back. Try it out for yourself. The gift of encouragement.  We all have it. 

People Have to Have it

Dear friends,


Just a quick note to let you know how we could help someone you introduce to us.


Who says the market is dead?  The wonderful thing about Real Estate…like insurance, transportation, food & oxygen is…people have to have it!


This week our success story was about our property for sale on Argyll Street.  Our client, Martin Prus (owner of Benjamin Moore Abbotsford), referred us to Millie Humar.


Her husband had passed away some time ago and one of her kids, Steve, wanted her to move in with his family in Port Coquitlam.


We started marketing Millie’s home after going over all the processes, details & our Pin Point Pricing System.  After a month we did some fine tuning to the test price based on the feedback from buyers, Realtors & our own showings.


Then Christmas came and the snow put buyers & sellers on hold until the deep freeze was over.  We started to see the phones ring and the email inquiries pick up mid January…and that’s when it happened.


I had shown Millie’s home to a buyer about a month earlier and now they had sold their townhome & wanted to buy Millie’s place.  An offer was written & in the meantime an out of town Realtor also wrote another offer.


The nice thing about having 2 offers is you know the seller is going to have a sold sign on soon and will have sold at a good price.


After all the dust had settled, Millie had accepted a full price offer!  She is now celebrating and will be moving in with Steve & the grandkids.


Congratulations Millie!


Your Real Estate Consultants for life,

Larry & Marlene Siebert


PS. Doom & gloom—No way!  People are still upgrading or downsizing.  We have clients retiring, transferring into the area & getting job transfers to other cities, getting married & buying their first home & taking advantage of the awesome interest rates and affordable housing. Who is the next person you know thinking of making a move? Your introduction is appreciated!  Thanks for not keeping us a secret!